Nearly every week I receive an email from at least one woman asking me what she needs to do to have an orgasm during intercourse, or worrying that something may be wrong with her because she can’t. Yet I rarely, if ever, receive the same question from men.
The simple fact is that the male orgasm typically comes easily during sex and female orgasms do not. The late Dr. Alfred C. Kinsey, famous for interviewing thousands about their sex lives, declared that 75% of men ejaculate within two minutes of penetration in over half of their sexual encounters.
It was exactly 1 year ago from today when I met her in person for the first time. A breathe of fresh air, a beautiful spirit, an amazing character. A perfect combination of grace & beauty, she immediately presented an extraordinary aura that was nothing short of effervescent. I gasped when hearing her speak of her experiences and aspirations. Matching my own, we spoke of similar ideologies and perseverance’s for living life to its fullest.
If you had a party and invited all of the men you’ve dated, would your apartment look like fraternity row? Would the gathering be mistaken for a tortured artist convention?
If online dating hasn’t led you to your perfect match, perhaps the issue isn’t that you’re too choosy, but rather that there’s too much choice.
There’s no doubt that dating in the 21st century offers a lot of opportunities. Think about your parents’ generation: They grew up with no Internet, they likely stayed in the same town for most of their lives, and they automatically had more in common with the people in that town as a result. Today, women and men are increasingly marrying someone outside of their religion, their ethnicity and their geographic area.
Try this two-pronged strategy: First, be completely up-front with the guy to get past the awkwardness. If you think he regrets the makeout session, take a casual approach: "I want to chat about what happened. Can we put it behind us and go back to being normal coworkers?" But if you suspect he hopes you'll end up in a relationship (or at least have more hookups), you'll have to tread lightly to avoid hurt feelings, as in, "That was fun, and I think you're a great guy, but from now on, I want to keep my personal life separate from my professional life.
The food pyramid? Yawn. The latest news is the sex pyramid. Learn why including different types of lovemaking in your romantic repertoire can help you have more fun in bed.
When starting to date a new guy, one rule to which many people adhere is keeping your lips zipped about your exes, and to not ask about his, either. Sure, when you're just starting to feel someone out, you don't exactly want your first words to be about the one who got away. But as I continue meet new guys, I'm starting to think breaching the forbidden topic sooner rather than later is actually a good idea...and here's why.
It can be a devastating blow to a committed relationship. One partner strays and the other is left picking up the pieces-- and left with difficult decisions. If your significant other cheats on you-- can he or she change? When is there hope to salvage the relationship... and when is it hopeless?
